Showing posts with label Boxing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Boxing. Show all posts

28 Jun 2014

Your views, and your imagination cannot be compared to anyone elses...

I found myself wanting to put down some words half way through my working day, this is the result, though it's now a day later and that lunch is long gone!

I just got back from a work trip yesterday, an annual meeting where no fun was planned for the evenings or any kind of pervyness intended.  But because I'd mentioned the city of where I was going on Facebook, one of the locals (and old friend) prodded me enough to make some excuses and meet up for a drink or meal out and I'm glad I accepted.

He turned up in his Motorcycle gear which was very nice to see (he wears it very well indeed!) and the evening was very pleasant.  What I discovered was that time doesn't go against a friendship, with perhaps the exception of our own minds playing tricks on us, making for nerves which weren't needed, though it perhaps added to the excitement!

This is event which has contributed to me having a spontaneous rethink.  This and some other coincidental things in my life have brought me to some conclusions, some positive ones I might add!  So I hope to summarise it in a way that really helps anyone who reads this.  I really hope it doesn't come across as sarcastic or big headed, I really want it to make a difference.

I've been an active pervert/gearhead for over a decade now and it's EASY for me to sit here typing away and publish some crap I wrote whilst eating lunch working from home.  It's easy because I've been doing it for years and I really have as much or as little power by publishing this as I like, because all that matters really is what anyone takes from this, that's totally optional.

Perception of this though is that I would write about my ego and how great I am etc, but actually it's really not...please bear with me and keep reading, it's gets better!

I don't want to assume I'm admired but I would be lying if I didn't admit to getting a few compliments about the things I've done.  The thing is I do this because I'm different.

The hardest part of this journey, despite all the ups and downs was the initial decision I made over 12 years ago - to make contact.  I remember shaking with so much adrenalin when I first set up my Yahoo Messenger, and then bit by bit exploring daring not to speak to anyone, just collecting photographs which turned me on not really knowing where things would go.

But it became addictive, and I lived for the chance that someone, anyone would have looked at my profile, even though I had no pictures of my own, I had no gear I though was good enough to show off.  I mean looks at the gear on show these days, that stuff costed hundreds if not thousands of pounds/euros/dollars*!!

But when I first got a message it became my world, it was so exciting, I'd have done anything to see, or experience something gear related, be touched or just talked to by someone who understood.

I just wish someone had told me the words I'd offered today.  Your views, and your imagination cannot be compared to anyone elses.  Put simply, without that it doesn't matter what gear you own or pictures you had  taken of wearing, doesn't really matter, because that is material.

It might sound completely bonkers for me to say that material worth is irrelevant in this community of material fetishes, but ultimately it's what keeps me going.  You might think that it's easy for me to say that with a cupboard full of leather, rubber and sportsgear, perhaps you're right, but I'm not going to throw it all away to find out, this isn't an experiment, just my ramblings.  I'm here in this post naked talking to you (not literally, I mean figuratively, I don't want to make you throw up!).

YOUR views no matter what are valuable to everyone else and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.  Opinions and views are something everyone does have and they are unique, some are unfortunate to only spout hate and unnecessary criticism, those times I just won't entertain a response but everyone has an outlet online.

You may not have the confidence, you may not have the experience, you may not have the body or money, but you have the mind, and the want to be part of it and just to not feel alone or like you're weird.

Well the fact is you are weird, I AM WEIRD, what normal person dresses up as a rubber dog that likes being deprived of air and having various things inserted into my out places, being electrified and tormented (grrr getting a boner now).   But even saying that, you don't have to agree with my kinks, you just have to be comfortable with being different and being part of this community, even if you occupy a small corner of it.

This is a community that on the face of it, is very manly, armoured, disguised, anonymous, kinky, devious, scary, intimidating, raunchy, twisted, slinky, messy, powerful, and yet also strangely desirable.....if you give in to that, please don't feel you'll be rejected, because if you recognise ANY of this in yourself, you are one of us, and you are welcome.  I just ask that you please continue to help others, don't assume anything is yours to take or is deserved, enjoy contributing back and participate.

These costumes we wear, hide the person within, and more often than not, that person is a sensitive, fragile and precious soul.  Perhaps that isn't something anyone wants revealed in reality, but I figure we are of mutual minds on this subject so the risk is minimised.

So the following message is for those who are 'active' and contributing in a similar way to myself...please remember those first moments of terror when you decided to make contact with 'someone' you felt you could approach, because at some point soon that 'someone' might be you, don't leave a sour taste in that new guy's mouth.

Yes we might all have different journeys/stories, and we don't all have time to chat with everyone, so perhaps, maybe this blog will inspire others to reach out and open invitation and pay it back.

Great, now my lunch is cold!

17 May 2014

So much to do, so little time!

Well things have been quiet on this window to the world of late for a few reasons.

Of course the normal work stuff gets in the way taking up so much time which you all rightfully deserve instead!

As I write this summer has officially landed...well summer according to the UK which is a very pleasant 22c which is about right for this time of year.

Colin and I will be going on holiday soon for a short trip to go Mountain biking with Rubbot up in the Lake District and possibly Scotland.  Also hoping to get the big dark skies we experienced in Norfolk late last summer and provided it's clear we'll get to see the milky way again (an awe inspiring sight we often miss being based in a suburban area with it seems too much light pollution)

Anyway, onto pervier things.....

To some it may not be too obvious, but to others they may be chomping at the bit to find out more.

We are working on a big project which will come together publicly in the next few weeks.

GearBlast:UK

For those who aren't aware I was chief organiser of an event five years ago designed to bring together pervs from many far reaching places into one venue for two nights of just enjoying each others' company and doing what comes naturally...in gear.  This was an extension of the original GearBlast created and hosted by ScubaCCS held during IML in Chicago for a few years before.  I had become a close friend and after seeing how I organised a few private gear parties, he asked me to run a big GearBlast in the UK.

The event we hosted in 2009 could have gone a hell of a lot smoother and in fact it had such a negative effect on me personally that I wasn't prepared to host another.  But is was well received by those who came and we occasionally got asked if we were doing another one.

We weren't going to...but that was until I got a message from good and long time friend Rubbiker77 who, after GBUK09 (which he attended) was inspired to carry on and created GearBlast Europe.

GBEU has more than doubled in size since it's first event and Rubby wanted to get exposure in the UK in 2014 so asked for my help.  I initially didn't want to do it but Rubby worked on me and convinced me to scout for some locations.

I got to work, but I couldn't meet the criteria for a GBEU event in the UK.  However whilst I was looking I began to see that another 'standalone' GBUK event which I would be coordinating again could work in one of the venues which previously didn't suit GBEU's needs or wants.

And so the seed was sown and it began to grow quickly.  I found myself becoming very enthusiastic about managing an event again and could see 'our' event working alongside GBEU to compliment what effectively becomes a Europe-wide GearBlast coverage.

GearBlast is a franchise in some ways, but all the events, although being in different locations have the same aims, to bring together male full gear-heads to mutually enjoy the company of like-minded perverts in a welcoming drama free setting. We don't work against each other and out of respect for GBEU which is held on the last weekend in May we won't be pushing our event until it has passed.

So GBUK was born and we decided to fill the same calender spot in late August as previously as in the UK it is the Bank Holiday weekend.  The Venue was now confirmed, the Dates and Times were set and lots of ideas were peculating in my mind.

Colin helped me get a few select individuals on board to help out, one being an old and very good friend who helped us out in the first GBUK, Bkrlthrs.  He worked on the graphic design for the look, created a website and gave us a very professional air.

He accepted the challenge and is currently finalising the design as we speak.  I have seen some previews and I'm very excited to show it off.  One of which will be an animated banner which will appear on a well known rubber website...and below is a sneaky peek of that banner.

Tickets will go on sale through www.gearblast.co.uk at a very reasonable price from the 1st of June 2014, and we have a fantastic venue secured with lots of space to play with some fantastic furniture and plenty of space to just chill-out or play. 

Hopefully the website will be fully operational too by the time tickets go on sale and we will have some great partners coming on board with us, all of which will be revealed over the next few weeks.

We hope this event gathers much more momentum and it'll be with your help that it will be the success it deserves to be.  This will be an annual thing which can only get better now.

Thanks for reading and I hope we see you in August!

1 Feb 2014

What pervs want

So, some of you might be familiar with our old website hosted graciously on Airdrive.co.uk but we closed the gates on that chapter (well, added a holding page) midway through 2013. 

We are not web designers and needed something easier to manage so after good friend S10Boi showed me it was much easier to update a blogger website and make it look like your own we've decided to give it a go.

So, what we are wondering is what 'old' content you'd like to see first, or whether you'd rather see fresh new content?  Please leave a comment below which for this time only I've opened up to anyone.

First Post

Well, the good news is Pervybikers will be returning via Blogger.  Bear with us as we upload the old content including the original content of Stories, Video links to Xtube, photos and more.

Depending on what kind of response we get determines the frequency and quality of what gets uploaded, so feedback is appreciated!